According to eHarmony, over 2 million people have found love through the platform, making it one of the most trusted dating apps for over 20 years. Dr. LeMeita Smith, PhD, director of clinical services at United Health Services, praises eHarmony as “one of the best dating apps for serious relationship seekers who want to find a compatible partner based on a comprehensive personality test and matching algorithm.” It’s designed for those looking for long-term commitment and marriage, setting it apart from casual dating apps.
My Experience with eHarmony
When I signed up, I was immediately struck by the 70-question compatibility quiz that every new user must complete. The survey covered everything from personality traits to relationship expectations, helping eHarmony curate highly compatible matches. It also included real-life scenarios to gauge how I would react in certain situations—for example, at a wedding, would I worry most about the gift, how we look together, or what my friends think of my date?
The questionnaire touched on both deep and lighthearted topics, such as:
- “Why do you think you’re still single?”
- “What’s your approach to planning things?”
- “What’s your ideal house temperature?”
Once my profile was set up, I could browse potential matches anonymously and send unlimited likes for free. However, there were limitations: no photos, limited messaging, and only a few free interactions before requiring a paid subscription. To view someone’s pictures or have full conversations, I had to upgrade. While this approach felt somewhat “Love Is Blind”—prioritizing compatibility over looks—it was also frustrating at times.
Is eHarmony Worth It?
If you’re serious about finding a long-term relationship or marriage, eHarmony should be at the top of your list. Unlike Tinder and other casual dating apps, its reputation attracts people looking for meaningful connections. The compatibility score on each profile, based on personality, communication, and organization, adds an extra layer of confidence in finding the right match.
While the paywall can be frustrating, the platform’s extensive matchmaking process and success rate make it a worthwhile investment for those seeking a committed relationship.
